Wellness
- Healing you body
Surrender
to Your Body and Embrace Your Feelings:
Ask
yourself often during your day how you are feeling. Then
pause, for a moment and direct your attention to your body.
Drop your shoulders, feel you feet connected to the ground
and make contact with your breath. You may do this after
you have an interaction with someone, or when you are alone,
or anytime during your day.
When
you are alone, in a safe place, give yourself more time
to focus inward. Soften your eyes, relax and get quiet,
connect with your breath and give yourself the instruction
to let down and surrender into the center of your being.Do
not judge, just feel what is there and name the feelings.
Let your attention be soft and compassionate.
Feel the opening and the space around the feeling. Do not
force anything. And if you cannot identify a feeling that
is okay, try later. But keep focusing in and asking yourself
what you are feeling. Breath into the feeling a few times
and practice letting it just be. You are getting to know
your inner experience and developing a deeper connection.
Move
Your Body and Feel Every Part:
Of
course always consult your doctor before you engage in any
new physical activity or movement. Then get to know your
body and ask your body how it wants to move. Start with
connecting with your breath and then moving any way that
feels comfortable. Go for a walk but do it differently.
Feel your feet hit the ground, dance while cooking or cleaning
your house. If you are at work and limited, tune into your
body as you get up and down and wiggle or stretch while
you are in your chair. Bring your attention to your movements
as you walk to your car; stand in line at the grocery store,
or fill your tank with gas. Move slowly and consciously
as your move through these activities.
Find
some fun activities you did as a child and do them. Enjoying
the pleasure in your body is essential to being reconnected.
Jump rope, swing on a swing, kick a ball at the park, fly
a kite, go swimming, play in the ocean, and walk through
the woods visualizing your feet making imprints on the earth.
Keep asking your body how it wants to move. If you are going
to reestablish a connection with your body that is not mechanical
you need to focus in and feel every part of it.
As
you practice these strategies you will heal your body and
reconnect with your deeper self. Your body will then become
your compass helping you navigate your life, instead of
being used for a storehouse for your unwanted feelings.
Be patient with yourself and always bring your loving attention
inward, thanking your body for all that it is doing no matter
what is going on.